EDITOR' S NOTE: He Said-She Said is a biweekly advice column for singles featuring a question from a reader with responses from a male and female point of view.If you've got a question about anything related to singleness or living the single life, please submit it to [email protected] (selected questions will be posted anonymously).
Hi there, I feel like I'm to old to ask such silly questions but I somehow got into this weird situation and am already too much into this guy to get out of it again. I have been dating a seperated man for 2 month now and it's kind of complicated.
First of all, there is no proof that he's actually living separated.
He called me the next day and we talked for a long time.
I learned that he was separated 7 months at that time and going through a divorce.
QUESTION: I was working a photography gig at an event.
During the course of that evening, a young man approached me and we hit it off instantly.
We are both Christians, but we did become intimate in our relationship.
He told me he wanted to slow all the way down because he believed God wouldn't bless our union since he was still legally married.
Rather, you simply need to live apart and not have sex with each other.
You and your spouse will need to live apart from each other for at least a year.
For example, the judge might disapprove of the dating spouse's behavior and develop a bias against them.