I don't know how to approach this subject because I'm sure she will not like the fact that I went on sites to find her profile. (This happened to me...)Why not just ask her about why she is still on them and remind her that she said she would come off them?One devious and not totally moral way of seeing if she is not totally committed to you, is to register yourself on one of these sites, in another name without a picture, from a new email account, and send her a few emails saying you are interested and eventually see if she will come on a date with you? but I would not recommend this as it is deceptive - and you may not like the resulting mess when she finds out what you have done. Oh and by the way, my GF is a smoker, and she uses mouthwash, cloves and mints..she still smells like an old ashtray. By entering this site you declare you are 18 or older, you read and agreed to its Terms, Rules & Privacy and you understand that your use of the site's content is made at your own risk and responsibility.
Did you confront/question your partner about their recent activity on the site or remain silent?
Did you feel you SHOULD continue to date other people because they were still active?
And just seeing that someone has been active isn’t necessarily useful information- they could’ve been active for a variety of reasons.
We met on a dating site and we both agreed to take down our profiles. I have had a bad feeling lately and decided to check a few and she is on several of them.
We have had a number of dates, met some of each others family, seemed to have a lot in common, and generally things are developing well.
So, what am I to think knowing she has spent a significant amount of time (I know she was on another site at least for 2.5 hours) on this and at least one other dating site? To make a long story short, I was in a past relationship with a woman I felt very strongly about, and later found out she was still visiting dating sites. Sometimes people have honorable intentions, but sometimes, it takes time to achieve certain goals. If you met a man and started a relationship would you be okay with him going out hitting on other ladies and possibly hooking up with them? If she has said she wants to be exclusive she should not hunt for others, neither should you and I understand you don't. If she's not ready to give up the dating sites, maybe you should let her go on with it without you.^^^^^WRONG ADVICE freyja...............................To save everyone confusion though, I think ‘taking the profiles down’ should be talked about outright, likely in the exclusivity conversation, and not something that is just assumed.Until a couple is exclusive, there’s really nothing wrong with being on a dating site.Never good news to discover, but it must have come from somewhere.These are a few common scenarios: A friend: Your friend who’s active on dating sites came across your girlfriend’s profile and told you about it. It's also one of the times I think it's okay to be a bit sneaky.