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You can’t watch as they smile, and that smile spreads up into their eyes and transforms their face into one of the most beautiful things you’ve ever seen – a thing that warms your heart and makes you realize you want to spend more time with the person. Unfortunately, the reality is nowhere near that fantasy.

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When I was looking for love, I often dated up to three guys simultaneously.

I wasn't trying to hit some number in the Guinness Book of World Records.

Ironically enough, if you could take the best of those women and the best of those men, and place them in a big room where they could sit at a table and ask each other questions in person – you’d probably have 4 or 5 new match-ups by the end of the night. All they have to do is get online every day, sitting on their princess throne and file through the dozens or more profiles of men who have messaged them throughout the day.

The problem with online dating is that you can’t see the person’s face when they’re telling you about themselves. I think it’s hard for guys to comprehend the world of online dating from a woman’s perspective. They then flippantly toss out all of those well thought out, carefully crafted messages from most of those poor schmucks, and then they log onto their Facebook accounts to complain to their girlfriends that there are no “good men” left in the world.

The challenge in modern times, for many users, is not dishonesty, but decision-making.

Too Many Items on the Menu May Decrease Commitment Have you ever lunched at a deli with so many menu items it was virtually impossible to order?Since there was no way to know who would stick around, I dated as many guys as I was interested in at the same time.That's why I'm an advocate for "volume dating."I dated 30 men in 15 months in order to eventually meet my husband.All of these dates were very stressful because of the time being I devoted just to get to the date.First date failure, whether because she wasn’t what I was looking for or the reverse, was very difficult.This over-abundance of options might lead to an objectification mindset and decreased desire to commit to a single partner.[1] This mentality may cause daters to continue browsing dating sites while already in a relationship.